What is this “If you don’t talk to me, don’t bother talking to me anymore” stuff? When you have a full time job and family and shit, I can’t keep up with everyone, not even the people I would LOVE to talk to every day.
I don’t expect that from anyone as a condition of my friendship. That’s too high maintenance for me. I like to catch up when you have time. Friendship should ebb and flow. Not be demanding or stressful.